UpLate

Hi JustWannaDance. I'm not really responding because I have any particular knowledge about dancing as I am a guy. However, since you seem to be one of the more active members I thought I'd say hi. So... hi! I actually came to the forum because I had a question about my first strip club experience. You can read it under General Chat, called "Stripper's Remorse" if you're interested.

Anyway, I would imagine that some of the more major clubs have an "open poll night" or something of that effect. You could go that route. Try to start out small if you can. Regardless of how badly you want to do it, getting up in front of a room of people might be quite a shock. You also might want to try actually attending a club yourself and just take in the experience. It would give you a better feel for how things work and you could talk to a dancer. Who knows, if its a slow night the owner might be like "what the heck, go ahead up"!

Regarding your husband's feelings on the matter; to be honest this will most likely continue to be a sticking point. He doesn't want you to do it. Him telling you NO, compounded with your desire to do it, will probably drive you apart to some breaking point because of resentment. It wouldn't be fair to give him an ultimatum because, as far as he knew, he didn't marry a stripper. Ultimately, it comes down to how bad do you want it? Are you willing to give up your relationship for it? If so, then by all means, do it!