Too bad you didn't know what to expect when you walked into a stripclub for the first time. It doesn't matter if you are ugly or gorgeous - the dancers are there to make money, and to do that, they will flirt with you and tell you all kinds of things that you want to hear. It's their job. The stripclub is supposed to be a fantasy world. You go in to experience the company of beautiful women. Period. It's not a place to find validation. You have to expect to hear what we affectionately call "stripper shit" - basically the conversation she will have with you to get into your wallet.
To you it's fun.
To her, it's a job.
Be glad you discovered this at 21, not at 35, and wound up $10000 in the hole to a girl that views you as nothing more than a nice customer.
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