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Old 04-15-2009, 07:57 PM   #1 (permalink)
JustWannaDance
 
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: south carolina
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Unhappy Just Want to Dance

So... I havent really done any professional exotic dancing yet, but I have a few really close friends who are dancers and I go to the stip club all the time, I have a pole of my own and practice on it all the time... So I hate HATE HATE my current job, I cant do it anymore, it's so boring! So naturally my thoughts go to wanting to dance. I know how it works, I already know i'm a good dancer, I'm not like WOW beautiful, but I'm pretty... I know I could do it and would be good at it... Here's the problem, my husband doesnt want me to. I've tried explaining how its no big deal and how he's the one I married and sleep with, but no... Well, actually he goes back and forth. One minute he says "just try it and we will see how it goes", other times he says "you can only do amatuer nights", and then other times its flat out "no"....
What should I do? Should I not tell him and do day shifts while he's at work? Got any ideas of how I can convince him? I expected him to think "wow this is funny and kinda hot, guys drool over her she gets their money and comes home to me at night" ... that's how i expected him to react, but he didnt. He thinks it will strain our marriage and cause a lot of problems. Anyone married and dancing? What does your husband think? Give me advice please!
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