deanna

There is this gorgeous stripper I go to see and immediately there was an attraction between us but now she says we are good friends and she doesn't want to fool around and mess up our friendship. She gets jealous if I look or talk to other dancers and gives me free private dances but always pulls back from going too far. We talk often outside the club but never meet. I don't know what to do should I keep seeing her @ club or leave her alone? HELP!

deanna

I am a female who is attracted to other females but I am married and my spouse does not like it. We went to strip clubs to find out if I actually did like girls I had a great time and go often he sometimes goes along but gets mad when the females come on to me and ignore him I feel he over-reacts and should enjoy the view. Give me your opinion

lopaw

deanna

I say go to the club alone and leave hubby home. If he's gonna get mad cause you're getting attention, why bring him? Some things are not meant to be shared. Just don't brag about any of it to him when you get home.

I am also a female club goer. I have never run into the situation you describe, tho. I have hooked up with many dancers OTC, and if a dancer is interested in some sexual fun she will definitely let you know. Sounds like this dancer isn't interested in anything more than what she's already giving you (for free yet!). Keep seeing her in the club if you can handle keeping things as they are. If not, then it's probably best to move on.